Stop Bullying. Stand Up. Speak Out.
Empowering students, parents, and communities with the knowledge and tools to recognize, prevent, and address bullying—especially for Muslim youth who face religiously-motivated harassment.
What is Bullying?
Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior that includes three key elements:
Hostile Intent
The behavior is intentional and meant to cause harm—not an accident.
Imbalance of Power
Physical strength, access to embarrassing information, popularity, or adults vs. kids.
Repetition
The behavior happens more than once or has the potential to be repeated.
Recognizing Different Forms
Verbal Bullying
- Teasing and name calling
- Inappropriate comments
- Taunting and threatening
Social Bullying
- Leaving someone out on purpose
- Spreading rumors
- Embarrassing someone in public
Physical Bullying
- Hitting, spitting, pushing
- Tripping
- Taking or breaking belongings
Cyberbullying
- Social media harassment
- Sharing private information
- Mean texts or online posts
What You Need to Know
Select your role to see specific guidance and resources.
What To Do If You're Bullied
- They want you to react—if you don't, they often lose interest
- Tell the bully to stop in a calm, clear voice (only if you feel safe)
- You can try to laugh it off if joking comes easy—it might catch them off guard
- If speaking up feels unsafe, walk away and stay away
- Don't fight back—find an adult to stop the bullying
- If it continues, talk to a trusted adult: teacher, parent, counselor, or school psychologist
- Stay away from places where bullying happens
- Stay near adults and other kids when you're alone
- Use the buddy system
What NOT To Do
- Think it's your fault—nobody deserves to be bullied!
- Fight back or bully a person back
- Keep it to yourself hoping it will go away—report it
- Skip school or avoid activities because of the bully
- Be afraid to tell—telling is NOT tattling, it's the right thing to do!
- Hurt yourself—nothing is that hopeless. Things can be resolved.
If You See Someone Being Bullied
- Talk to a parent, teacher, or another trusted adult—they need to know so they can help
- Be kind to the person being bullied
- Try to include them: sit with them at lunch, talk to them, invite them to activities
- Make them feel like they're not alone
- Get involved: join school safety committees, help implement anti-bullying programs
Remember: Incidents of bullying are reduced when students themselves disapprove of bullying.
Statistics on Bullying of Muslim Kids
- 53% of Muslim students have experienced religiously-based bullying—nearly twice the national average
- 52% of Muslim adolescents reported verbal bullying as the most common form of harassment
- Physical harassment jumped from 9% to 19% between 2014-2017
- 38% of bullying incidents involved a teacher or school official
- Only 32% said reporting to an adult made a difference
- Cyberbullying victims jumped from 19% to 26%, with 57% viewing offensive online posts about Islam
If Your Child is Being Bullied
- DO NOT tell them to ignore it or "suck it up"
- Review school or district policies on bullying
- Follow the procedures outlined in those policies
- Inform the school about your concerns right away
- If bullying doesn't stop, escalate: Teacher → Principal → Superintendent → School Board → U.S. Department of Education Office for Civil Rights
If Your Child is the Bully
- Make it clear their behavior is unacceptable and will have consequences
- Follow through with consequences
- Help them recognize how it makes the victim feel
- Encourage them to perform an act of kindness
- Ask them to reflect on why they're doing it
- If anger issues, teach them to control it
- If communication issues, teach problem-solving skills
- If low self-confidence, help them feel better about themselves
- Know their friends
General Tips for Parents
- Lead by example and respect others
- Teach positive, nonviolent responses to abusive behavior
- Build strong self-confidence and positive self-image
- Consider enrolling them in a self-defense class
- Create a loving home environment
- Treat them with respect, actively listen, allow expression of opinion
- Create a culture of accountability
- Recognize and look for signs of bullying
- Get to know the school staff and join the PTA
- Teach self-protection techniques and role-play for practice
How to Raise Self-Confident Kids
Download Workshop Slides
Get the full Anti-Bullying Workshop presentation to share with your school, mosque, or community group.
Download PDFAdditional Resources
StopBullying.gov
Official U.S. government website with resources for students, parents, and educators.
KnowBullying App
Free app by SAMHSA to help adults start conversations with children about bullying.
NoBullying.com
Resources and advice on bullying prevention and intervention strategies.
StompOutBullying.org
National anti-bullying and cyberbullying organization for kids and teens.
ING.org Anti-Bullying
Islamic Networks Group resources specifically for Muslim students and families.
Bring Our Workshop to Your Community
ICNA CSJ offers free anti-bullying workshops for schools, mosques, and community organizations across the nation.
Request a WorkshopPart of Our Islamophobia Campaign
Anti-Muslim bullying is a form of Islamophobia that affects our youngest community members. This workshop is part of ICNA CSJ's broader effort to combat anti-Muslim sentiment through education, advocacy, and community action.
Learn About Our Islamophobia CampaignTogether, We Can Stop Bullying
Every child deserves to feel safe at school. Join us in creating a culture where bullying is never tolerated.
